Can't wait to hear the responses on this one.  As far as blaming Eve, think about it this way, she was deceived.  Adam knew better and still rebelled.  I agree that men are called to be leaders...pastors, heads of households, etc.  But God did choose to use women in key roles in the Bible...i.e. Deborah and Esther.   

Also remember, God didn't want man to be a country's leader either.  Israel wanted a king because everyone else wanted one....This is a very good post, thought provoking and it lives up to its name...provoketive.