As the mother of 3 teens, 18, 16, and 13, I have seen my girls respond to these exact issue. My eldest has rejected the institutional forms of the church because of the hateful treatment of the GLBT community. My middle daughter said she can't be a part of anything that would require her to ignore scientific facts like evolution and my youngest is just starting to here and understand the conservative views on homosexuality and can't reconcile that with the way we raised her.  As a minister working in the urban context this is exceptionally hard for me to watch.  My kids see me and my husband as anomalies on the fringe of the tradition and I fear they will never give any church a chance.   They are all compassionate and all dedicated to living like Jesus.  I pray for new wine skins for this generation that truly loves like Jesus.