<h3>I don’t understand what all the fuss is about. Saving sex for marriage isn’t that big of a deal.</h3>
Think about it.

It’s a test of your will. That’s all. Just a line drawn in the sand that you tell yourself you’re not going to cross. You can walk up to the line, poke your toe over the edge, push it around a little and see if it will budge.

You might even jump over the line a couple of times but then you’ll chalk it up to a moment of weakness and jump back to the other side. The guilt you feel will keep you on the right side of the line, at least for awhile.

That what “saving sex for marriage” is about, isn't it? That’s how we’re all acting. I keep getting questions about this and can’t help but wonder what it is we’re trying to get at. What does it mean to save sex for marriage? What are physical boundaries all about?

<em><strong><img class="alignleft" src="http://www.allyspotts.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Wedding-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" />Correct me if I'm wrong, but here are the questions you really want to ask.</strong></em>

If I’m saving sex for marriage can I have oral sex? Is that wrong?

How much kissing is too much kissing? Can we sleep in the same bed?

What about dry humping? What’s the verdict on that?

When it comes to touching am I allowed to touch and be touched in whatever ways I want as long as it’s over the clothes?

What if I get an orgasm from it? Is that wrong?

What about getting naked? Can I take my shirt off as long as my pants are on? Can one of us be naked if the other one isn’t?

What is the right combination of nakedness to clothes to prevent myself from being convicted of sexual sin?
<h4>We’re talking ourselves in circles. We’re asking all the wrong questions.</h4>
And we wonder why, at the end of the day - no matter where we set the boundary - we have a hard time keeping it.

Following a list of rules like that is pointless. As in it <em>has no point</em>.
<h4>No wonder we get tired and give up.</h4>
I want to challenge us to stop asking the question “What’s okay for me to do or not do” and start asking this question instead:

<em>“Why am I committed to this in the first place?”</em>

Honestly. Consider this a free-for all in my comments section.
<h3>Why are Christians waiting until marriage for sex?</h3>