I very much enjoyed this post. This is an issue that has always left me with a deep-seated discomfort - not homosexuality itself, but rather the way that the church responds to those who pursue same-sex relationships. I want to be careful, given that Scripture does speak against same-sex relationships; however, the thought that someone would think that I hate them or hope that they would "burn in hell" based on their sexual orientation is deeply disturbing to me. It is very refreshing to be reminded that Jesus SIMPLY commanded us to love each other, and not to police others' actions; furthermore, that the church is not to dictate the laws of secular society.  Good point that you made about divorce being legal as well; perhaps we don't push back against it simply because it has become so common-place, and we are more used to it?