Marilyn,
Thank you for taking time to leave this comment (and that link! wow!). The perspective I hold is that many ways/paths CAN lead to God. It doesn't mean they do! It is the practicing, the living, the embodying of everything good in a faith path that leads one to salvation (imho). Oh, I very much puzzle over the same questions you pose. To me what is more important than 'who' is right, the exact nature of Jesus' divinity, etc. is how we hold it. I think when we hold our faith (whatever it is) in a way that we think we are better than others, it is a dangerous path, one that separates rather than unites. I'd love to hear more of your thoughts.