While I am more than happy to help out with childcare, food and decorating these are not my primary gifts. On some level I always knew that I had more to offer but I doubted the "rightness" of my giftings after too long in a church that told me I was way out of the bounds of what a woman should be. I am free from this now but it is heartbraking to see it happening to women all around me. Thanks for speaking out.