Kaitlin, thank you so much for commenting. I have to tell you, I am very interested to hear more from you in the future as you wade further into this. First- congratulations on the birth of your daughter! Isn't it amazing how the responsibilities of parenthood really slam some focus onto things like this? To begin with, as I mentioned in my post, how do I talk about issues where I myself am not settled, or anywhere near it? I believe that modeling healthy dialogue is one of the biggest keys to this all, but admittedly, there are some things we are BOTH unsettled on, and they are already coming up because we are very much part of a community of faith with quite a few people in the congregation who are VERY settled on things- so that's a whole 'nother wrinkle, too, because we are active leaders in the congregation. So, that relationship dynamic is in play, too, because it isn't the most open community in terms of sharing doubts and questions or going against the established pat answer. So at the same time, she gets that from those who we can't necessarily reign in on what they teach our daughter. 

Thanks Kaitlin, for sharing your story. Love your photostory work, also!