Bronwen,
   Thank you for sharing your experience and reflection. I also have sensed and been kinda grossed out by the seeming arrogance of the 'Our God' thing. I'm curious what conclusions or new questions arise for you when you contemplate the seemingly exclusive declarations of both Jesus and His disciples found in the N.T.? I'm thinking  'Only way to the Father', 'Name above every name','Only name by which one can be saved' etc.
 I look forward to your response! 

Sincerely, 
   A.j