I am a very, very, very serious student of scripture and after very, very, very much study of the few passages that address same sex relationships (studying the original contexts and original language) it is obvious that those scriptures are not referring to loving, monogamous same sex relationships and now that most Christians are aware of the error in trying to use those scriptures to condemn same sex relationships many are now trying to say that same sex relationships should be condemned because there is no scripture to condone them.  I think that is a dangerous way to use scripture as a guide or authority.  When I realized that scripture did not address loving, monogamous same sex relationships I had to ask myself how would God want me to proceed? - should I condemn something because it isn't addressed? what would be the just thing to do?  I came to the conclusion that it would be unjust for me to condemn anything without sufficient evidence if it doesn't cause obvious harm to someone.... therefore, I cannot condemn same sex relationships that are loving and monogamous - and I believe it is unjust for anyone to do so based on the fact that scripture does not address the issue.