Yup, that's exactly what I mean.

I have a son who takes ballet lessons.  He does it because he wants to, not because I'm trying to "prove" anything by forcing him.  He's good at it.  But I certainly wish I had a dime for every time someone said something which amounted to, "You're going to turn him into a sissy/girl/queer."  It doesn't just bother me because he isn't any of those things (at least, not that I know of--he's only 8).  It bothers me because so what if he is?  So what if he grows up to be a man with more "feminine" sensibilities?  And what difference would it (or should it) make to anyone else if he's gay or transgender?  And why does ballet or being gentle, sweet, or nurturing automatically make him queer?