I would have to admit that i do really love my little community and wouldn't trade it for the world, but I also understand that not everyone has the option to attend a community like mine that loves me as I am and encourages me to be... me.

I do understand being in a place where there is no church or community that supports you and allows you to flourish as a person and a follower of Jesus, as opposed to a place that stifles you and holds you down.  I would not wish that kind of community on my worst enemy.

I would encourage you to keep looking.  There are a few Presbyterian churches out there in Spokane that seem interesting, but after a thorough search of the web I haven't found a huge listing of churches that look open and friendly and accepting and loving.  many of them seem like what we have here in Albany, traditional and kind of...  old... and well more concerned about their programs then their people.  Of course that was just a glance.

I do also recommend joining some internet communities of folks that will support you and listen to you and read your stuff and look at your pictures. One that i have found to be an asset for me is the Outlaw Preachers (which is not just for preachers).  You can find their group on Facebook (just search for "Outlaw Preachers"), just join it and begin sharing with all of us.  We have a wonderful get together each year.

Also, you should check out the TransForm Network here:  http://www.transformnetwork.org/group/uspacificnorthwest  

I am also part of this network and it is for churches that kind of don't fit in elsewhere.  They too have regular get togethers, conferences, etc.  Of course these are the networks I am currently involved in that give me the most support as a person and a pastor.  You are welcome to each and consider this a personal invitation. :)  I hope you find a good community to share your spirituality with where you are.  Don't stop looking.  :)  Again, maybe the answer is not found in a traditional church setting. :)