Thanks Amy for your comment (for my first article posting on Provoketive at that!)

I have realized in the last couple of years that i"ve been codependent in every single church I have ever been a part of, including my current one, though I am now mindful of it and keep myself in check. I am done living a church-centered life and instead now focus on living a Christ centered life.  I think  that means living a relationship-centered life. 

Thanks again for chiming in. Blessings on your journey as well!