Does Provoketive welcome all conversation?  And you, Alise?

I think you completely missed the boat on this one.  The judgment isn't about behavior at all.  If that is what you're hearing, you're listening to the wrong voices.  The issue is women taking responsibility for themselves.  I am beyond childbearing years now, but I never, ever expected my birth control choice (for me, The Pill) to be free or for taxpayers to pay for it.  I worked at a bank as a teller at minimum wage, a single, self-supporting adult.  Later it was a family choice.  This is what the debate is about, taking responsibility for yourself.  Please don't muddy the discussion by making it appear to be anything other than that.  Anyone with a cell phone, a computer, and Internet can afford, and should be responsible for, their own birth control.  Do you not agree with that?  That's the issue.  Who cares, really, how much sex women have or want?  Or men.  Women want to be seen as equals, they need to man-up, act like equals, and learn to self-support w/o whining.  Thanks for listening to a different POV.