Very needed piece and a great read. As a person who grew up in a home with spousal abuse, I did not care much for the thoughts and ways of men or how society both generally and specifically suppressed women. I was raised Catholic and read a lot of pieces by so-called "saints" that were nothing short misogyny, using Eve's role in the Garden (temptress) as an indictment and excuse to suppress; an ancient resentment and blaming that is still strong in the church today. Had to do a lot of work over the years on this issue of men and their oppressive nature. 
I suppose I must ask what you perceive is modesty? I am very curious.
God bless.