I stumbled across this article after someone on my FB feed linked to another one from this website.  I can't express everything I want to say right now, but so much of what has been said here are things that I have struggled with as well.  I'm 39 years old, female, divorced, and truthfully I HATE navigating the dating/relationship landscape that is a part of our culture.  It seems as if no one appreciates a woman who values herself and her body and doesn't want to share with just anyone.  ** sigh **  I didnt think I would find myself here at this age, struggling with sexual desires that are for the most part unfulfilled, while also wanting to please God in my lifestyle choices above all else.  I'm glad to know I'm not the only one struggling internally with these things.