It should be noted that I did it on my own as well. It was my own choice to start dressing the way I did and my parents didn't make me do it at all. It was definitely a result of the environment I was in and the 'peer pressure' from my friends around me and not because of anything my parents forced on me. 

I think it is very important to wear what is comfortable for you and be happy in your own skin. I am glad you have been able to find that balance for yourself! 

Thanks for reading and giving your input, Jackie!